The most fun I’ve ever had…

I am lucky, I make o.k. money that lets me go on vacations, live in a great house and have fun spending money on clothing, good food and gadgets. All of that is fun but the real fun for me is when I feel alive. What do I mean by ‘feeling alive’. I feel alive when my senses are awake, my emotions are free to feel everything, when I can feel sad and cry when something horrible happens to someone and when I can feel happy and excited when something really great happens as well. The more years we are around, the more we think we have figured life out. We have our set routines. We know what we’ll eat for breakfast, what style of furniture we like, what style of clothing we will wear, what the people are we like and who we don’t like, what religion we belong to and so on. The more we think we have figured life out the less we re-invent ourselves. But unfortunately, at the same time our range of the emotions we can feel goes down, our spontaneity goes down and our willingness to explore decreases. When most of us were in our teens we were excited to explore who we were are going to be. We wanted to learn, make money, find great friends and life partners to build our lives with. The sad thing is that most people will not change up their routines any longer when they are in their 50th and 60th and 70th.

The real luck I have is not that I make o.k. money but that I found people who are explorers no matter how many years they are around. I just attended the People Unlimited New Years Launch Event in Scottsdale and I was lucky to be with Bernadeane who I saw completely change her routine around once again. And Bernie is not in her teens, or 20th or 30th. I know Bernie now for about 25 years and I’ve seen her change her routine around over and over again. Usually when I see Bernie change is when she feels that what she has been doing is no longer building her body or the people around her. Bernie changes things most people wouldn’t change like life style, food, opinions, believes, the way of interacting with close friends and family. Each time I see her change these things, I see Bernie be more alive. I see her more charismatic, more vibrant, more smiling and laughing, more excited about her day, more excited about her future. My mom is only 10 more years around than Bernie and I care for her a lot but I have not seen my mom excited about her future for a very long time.

The most fun I have is when I get up in the morning and don’t live the perfect routine but have the intend to do whatever will most build my body and the body of everyone around me that day. What can I say, what can I do, how can I interact with my co-workers and clients so that their life is easier that day? How can I make the people around me feel valuable, wanted, smart and just overall great? How many people can I make feel that way?

It’s so much fun to live my day that way because I have to re-invent myself all the time and there is no set routine. It has no right and wrongs and the dreadful feelings of being impatient and frustrated with others don’t exist. My day is not planned around a long and important ‘to do’ list but around the intend to do what will make my life better and what can make the lives of the people around me better. This requires all my senses to be aware. Great routines always come with the threat of failure. Failure because I might not be able to do everything I said I would. Living around the intend to making my own life and the lives of others better, easier and more fun knows no failures. In the end those failures of missing a goal or not completing something you had committed to are fun killers. They can make you feel small and insufficient and unimportant because once again you have broken your word. Making another person smile and have a moment of laughter or making a certain task easy for others or just giving someone that feeling of how important they are to you has instant gratification. In those moments failure does not exist and the feeling small and insignificant which is so common is extinguished. There are no limits of how easy life can be and how happy we can be and how important we are to each other.

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My dog Kandy is having a crisis

My dog Kandy is laying next to us with her head under the bed. My other dog Gipsy – who we just got from a rescue – is dropping a ball in front of Kandy over and over again teasing her to play but Kandy keeps ignoring Gipsy. Kandy has a lot of energy and loves to play. It can never be too much activity for her. At least this is what Kandy used to be. Now we got Gipsy and Gipsy has actually time to give Kandy just that lots of attention and playtime but Kandy shows Gipsy the cold shoulder.

Otto and I could never play much with Kandy. For the most part of our days we sit in front of our computers or talk on the phone working. We take a couple of minutes here and there to walk or play with Kandy but overall we are really boring as it pertains to Kandy’s needs. Gipsy on the other hand has lots of time and lots of energy to play with Kandy. But now Kandy is showing a completely new side, the side of a grumpy old dog who just doesn’t want to talk to the stupid little kid who dares to interrupt the so well known family life. 

Aren’t we sometimes like that? Aren’t we sometimes bored with our life and wish something new and exciting would happen and when it actually happens we turn our back to it? Because it messes up the well known family life? But mostly it just messes up the boring life we had and for some reason now we don’t like it. It’s pathetic.

I want my boring life messed up with something new and better all the time. I love the new. I want lots of more physically immortal people in my life who don’t just want to rely on family for the real big things in their life but want to rely on me too. I am looking for these people who want to rely on me because I see them unlimited, with no end to their life ever. Because I see them able to have everything they want and more, Because I see that they can be strong, healthy and making lots of money when they are in their 70th, 80th, 90th,and so on – really without any limit. I am not going to be ignoring them because I have already something really good going on. I will not lay around like my dog Kandy making sure Gipsy knows that she is not welcome because Otto and I should only give our attention to her. I will play and enjoy the new exciting experiences I can have with people who want to build this unlimited life with Bernie and Jim, me and many others.

There are so many more great adventures to live and the best one’s will come with people who feel that they don’t have to die and who are physically immortal. I am physically immortal and being physically immortal has very different dynamics. You just don’t get to enjoy just one or two people or have your life evolved around your family. You get to enjoy a whole lot of people with a lot of depth, intensity, enjoyment, intimacy. Who could say no to this kind of a life.

Check us out at PeopleUnlimitedInc.com or even better come to one of our Break-through Events in Scottsdale. It will change your life and will keep changing it forever.